Domestic violence perpetrators

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Advice and support to help you stop being violent and abusive.

“I slapped her once and I promised it would never happen again…but it did.” — Respect Phoneline caller

Are you hurting the one you love?

Choose to stop!

Call the Respect Phoneline to get help to stop.

The Respect Phoneline is a confidential helpline, email and webchat service for perpetrators of domestic violence looking for help to stop. We help male and female perpetrators, in heterosexual or same-sex relationships. Partners or ex-partners of perpetrators, as well as concerned friends and family members and Frontline Workers are also welcome to contact us for information, advice and support.

“I felt that I had somewhere to go and I wasn’t alone. I feel that I have more choices now than I did before I called. I had someone who didn’t judge but told me direct that what I had done wasn’t right and made me face it. I really appreciated having the safe space to tell someone what was happening.” — Respect Phoneline caller


Respect Phoneline

0808 802 4040

Open Monday-Friday 9am-5pm. Free from landlines and mobile phones, your call will not appear on your phone bill statement.


chat logo Webchat available Tuesdays and Thursdays 10am-4pm on the Respect Phoneline website.