Advice and support to help you stop being violent and abusive.
“I slapped her once and I promised it would never happen again…but it did.” — Respect Phoneline caller
Are you hurting the one you love?
Choose to stop!
Call the Respect Phoneline to get help to stop.
The Respect Phoneline is a confidential helpline, email and webchat service for perpetrators of domestic violence looking for help to stop. We help male and female perpetrators, in heterosexual or same-sex relationships. Partners or ex-partners of perpetrators, as well as concerned friends and family members and Frontline Workers are also welcome to contact us for information, advice and support.
“I felt that I had somewhere to go and I wasn’t alone. I feel that I have more choices now than I did before I called. I had someone who didn’t judge but told me direct that what I had done wasn’t right and made me face it. I really appreciated having the safe space to tell someone what was happening.” — Respect Phoneline caller